06/08/09:Older Men, Younger Women

" Monday's decline WJ okay. It was that kind of news story over the weekend. That I knew as soon as I saw what was going to make women the angry. Because there's something about seeing an older guy with a young Heidi. That makes you ladies the men. And and I citadel is I I kinda do know what is this pledge. Embarrassing. Is -- Two. That this emotional reaction looked at facts the facts light -- light the world what works the way it works. And there is a study out. That was widely reported on over the weekend. That men. Who marry women who are younger than they are. Enjoy a definitive health benefits. Amid his chances of dying early. Are cut by 20%. If he marries a woman between fifteen to seventeen years younger. Than he has. They also funny right now at 6178 to two and -- as I'm watching the great double Thomas he deems. Deems about this news he absolutely. -- This news -- to get to more of here just a multi I have a broad question about. Where the line is between. Cool way to go guy in a key. Do the John Henry story brought that to the -- now we know John -- is I don't blame more than -- want to correct something whenever I get something wrong I want to be the first person corrected. And with -- talking earlier about the Quinn bill."

" And the degrees people get I meant to say the classes. People take because you have to get a degree. From. Some. Major university or community -- and in the plus the -- degrees you know just taking classes on shooting punks or CSI also taking. -- classes in art history basket weaving. In urban programs have been designed to keep the academic work liked. To accommodate police officer is so in the -- to say classes not degrees I got that wrong you have to dig have a degree in. Criminal justice and one other affiliated areas still stand still total rip -- still absolutely no connection between the hundred million dollars we spend. Because unions have more are proud legislators terrified -- what we get that's the natural truth. You disagree email me Michael ran -- 969 of duplicate outcome I guarantee you we'll talk about it again. There will certainly come up. Just as the issue of elderly drivers will certainly -- again now -- took a pro what was did you really think last week."

" And there's a problem totally wrong no clue on my blog my program accounts -- the facts what does she say today in the Boston Democrat. The temperature change. What changed Governor Patrick. And so his brown nosing toady at the RMD whose whole job is to shake you down. For tens of millions of dollars that goes straight to Beacon -- they don't go to. Licensing they don't go to services your services are getting cut she's charging you more because that's her job she's the water carrier for governor backed him in jail if she's happy to do it to rip you off the -- be shutting down offices limiting hours in charging you more for -- seeking give the money. To the hacks -- on Beacon Hill to help cover. The high tech holidays et cetera et cetera so the but want to get all that on the record for get back to the study to study Germany's max plunked institute. Also found that mid marrying older women not only to find Tom. If you Mary younger the that you live longer up to 2820%. Increase in the chance you will not entirely. Let men with the -- marry older women are more likely to die early. Usually by suicide now I'm kidding. I'm -- all we know what happened today security six or 78221969. Pound that's ever Verizon Wireless customers who lives with husbands. Older. It's a -- is that -- the women -- the same results wives husbands old or younger by between seven and nine years increase their chances of dying early by 20%. Rises to 30% so here's the deal. Ladies according to the study. If you marry a guy who is significantly older for you does a good chance he will live longer and you'll die sooner. It was -- all time. You know -- old the -- Michael Douglas. All Catherine Zeta-Jones today you're killing her. -- Tom Cruise is this is like a high school yet that we don't the and of course a local example is John Henry. A couple questions for you at 607822969. Pound knighted she's ever Verizon Wireless -- This is the debate we've been having here in the building all morning long. How much is too much. You know. A forty year old guy who marries a thirty year old woman that's ten years that's in the study that that -- he does get some health benefit I think. Yet if you -- if you marry a woman seven to nine years younger -- premature death risk drops by -- it. So to get the big bonus to get the 20% you gotta Mary. Fifteen to seventeen years younger -- 45 he mears is 32 year old but whatever they'll be right the me would be greeted that's or is that a big deal. Until a big -- get the sixty year old guy a twenty something year old woman that's just not right."

" It becomes painfully obvious one is that many years that up money may be a fact."

" Wrong answers let's say Michael it's a beautiful thing. That honor is the beautiful day I'm sorry ladies it's a beautiful thing I -- there is no gap so big idea criticize it and all I can say -- you go girl or you go guy. That's all I can --"

" Another glaring example -- Nicole's husband was clinically dead which -- him. Oh. Of course what would be a -- for another few years there and actually -- didn't last too much longer after he was gone."

" Of course you because she was heartbroken because it was true why is is hard ladies for you to believe but this is true love -- an all -- What what do women get out of this my pleasure glad there's PayPal I don't."

" I I've got a a doubleheader. Jackie Onassis. Jackie was only 29 or maybe even less when she married John Kennedy and then meet the lead to much older with Aristotle which was there."

" Fellas this is true love absolutely true love so -- get the here's here's my problem ladies in the -- you know with a six when somebody to to a 969. I get what the guy gets that. -- We know what the guy that does -- they got that obvious answer right there. And then the second low level you have this will now we have to study this bio bio biological evidence. That. Mean if you ladies are willing to marry a guy he's twenty years 25 years your senior. Yeah it's going to be great for him. So it's a double whammy for the guy. My question for you ladies it's it was 72 to a nice -- is what do you get. Now up. And by the way are a judge at promoted just poll question of the day. What is an acceptable age difference for married couples zero to five years five to ten years and continues to 220 years or twenty or more years John Henry scenes -- smiling a lot more these days. Is there. A line. Is there. A point where it may be guys you can feel the same -- where. It's just too much is too far but I. Yeah not my attitude is. If everybody is getting what they want what's the problem. If you noticed there are a lot of hopper's."

" Who have this problem have you noticed that the -- a lot of guys who are. You know. Rattling paper cups outside a Dunkin' Donuts for quarters and then going back to their. Younger one's noticed is none of this silly hot that no one is making a judgment about hot this year. It is purely about each. So we know I mean. Why this happens to me is -- perfectly obvious. The question is why do women do it that is much less obvious to me -- with 72 to a 969 and those. Do you have friends. Who had married. With a significant age difference."

" Are you embarrassed by it do you that -- it was like you know got this friend of mine he married this woman and she's like 25 he's young and he isn't. I get I get -- I'm just I'm embarrassed that I -- you look silly I think he looks. It makes the guy looked kinda creepy. I said -- Go for it. -- loud beep proud he remember it's not. A marital issue. It's a health issue this is like taking a bite him -- this is a lifestyle. Some guys choose to diet and exercise. Other -- is choose to hook up. With. A girl straight a high school the go to Jim Jim is on 969 good morning Jim you're on the you're right --"

" Yeah they'll formula is happier agent. Plus seven."

" Half your age plus cents LB was so if you're forty years old."

" By supporting. That went on here. It works because you're not. You wanna be. Put all for the girl because we're a super why actual feel like she's a princess. An and emotionally. You're even I mean there's so you don't need to corporal comparable well taken care. -- a guy is Philip reasonably secure in his job. And and by that time she is ready to go often. You don't do our thing or whatever but it worked it worked all the way down the portrait. Trying to do."

" At the -- plus -- has been doing some some here so let's see so when Strom Thurmond was 88. He was looking for a 51 year old life. Then -- the interestingly added 22 year old life as a group on natural to do the math on that thanks to the politics once nominated to a 969. At that half your age plus seven does give you the margin no it doesn't it doesn't get you necessarily the margin you need. For the health benefits remember the new study the man's chances of dying earlier cut by 20% if his bride is between fifteen and seventeen years younger. The risk of premature death has reduced by -- only 11%. -- same team there's a woman seventh in nine years younger no benefit after that. Liz is on 969 -- morning Liz your on the thanks for the call."

" I well my theory that the don't want it because. Eight she get the money rich man should and beat him and that's why I -- an -- of."

" And that's of having a horny and guy earning up to you is."

" You know Liz. This you're at your wine guys a look at the report. I. Want to guided should they want to chase their women they they'd like women. Really. Don't know I just in the dead Viagra exist but. I guess and wanted to see using their women who are getting married in the first one of their strategies is Ocalan Omega not on not that much sex."

" All I'm not -- about. The ones where whiny and -- of the sixty."

" They don't want the twenty year old is going to be chasing them or. Money -- okay okay get -- feeling what I -- Liz say that. It's -- sets up the alarm bell that every guy you why are these guys. Go looking for these younger women well in part because there either from previous experience. Or there's guessing the city you know. I marry a woman in the first thing she does she's my ages start strategizing how can I get out of sex. So when you find a woman who's. Still early in the game and we'll be looking to get out of the game first day. They'll be -- it maybe a couple years there where she still you know a look at for a regular schedule. As opposed to welcome back to -- double header on another day can I get out of this. 6178221969. Christina is on 969 morning Christina how are you. Hi Christina."

" Christina. Well some of sure. Bet that -- you -- what what what you much it right let's let's begin soliciting."

" Not their actual number but I don't -- sure well remember when bill Wyman -- the how old would -- what what can she. What can you relate -- because I -- it right. Yeah well but. And they want that the -- just before talking about not happy. Happening there there was to it first came here to back off all -- hey you know what we're what we're living life. I don't know but -- so -- I don't I don't know where."

" You heard her he said -- you said when they're getting married and they don't want some horny guy chasing them around and talk at all what I. Yeah. Doesn't that confirm the stereotype. That out did there are women who are getting married York already plotting before the marriage even starts. Okay I'll agree on this problem. And."

" That's like ladies -- it's I'm sorry whether it's true or not that's the marketing you've gut that's the problem you face the guys forty years old."

" He's got a chance to date a forty year old or twenty year old in the forty year old."

" Page I'll paint the ceiling Beijing is -- I'm in the game I think that's where this is coming from in the fact that there's now -- health benefit. Looms large in a man's future. Ladies if you get explaining what you get out of -- I'd love to talk to you more that and by the way the phones are jammed with some women who want to answer that question. Right here at 969 -- you -- there is the second first though I want to thank our friends at delete. Media solutions for being part of the show and we are there isn't another big area of dispute between women and men has nothing to do with. The -- of activities percent a -- to do with home media. TV sound and I don't just mean fighting over the remote number one guys don't mind having seven remote because -- and that guys. Do your wife a favor go to elite media solutions let them set up a home audio video system for you with one remote. It's a fantastic system I've got one it's great eighty dummy can use this remote guys do you live in favor of you what that big flat panel widescreen TV she's going."

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" Tomorrow."

" I know how you do it."

" I'm terrific how are you but what were you surprised by the study. The guys who Mary significantly younger ladies live longer."

" Now because I think that it you have something as. You're fortunate enough but the guy after the debate we had gotten a lot of you're gonna be your -- and."

" That's the point that. These younger women will take care of view whether it's does I don't mean just saying the sex and just in the general you know saying the general way he got this. Younger person who's making sure hey did you take him he's got the doctor did you do right get your exercise did you do it. It's that they actually encourage you that's one of the theories is that encourages better behavior by the guy."

" I would I would agree with that. I want to tell you that I want with a guy who was 21 years my senior or four years and it. It's very awkward. I find that I would be very embarrassed to cute thing to wish him in public I was embarrassed to have him hang out with friends -- agents. I was at the time I was it was like 23 or 26 and then. So forty whatever he lives and I was still at the last year college I've found that it was embarrassing for me. Have to introduce my friends. To a guy who is 21 years older than me and it was embarrassing to introduce into my parents."

" I was about to ask about that how did your dad feel a meeting a guy his age who is dating you."

" at -- he was all right with -- as Chinese that. In addition to the age that this guy was really not. He was simply not good enough for me and he was doing is. His dad saying I've got married and someone might like and my dad is perfectly happy with that he's getting that's right. But that beaten into second -- which has I think it's much actually much you're that age age isn't the deciding factor nobody talks about that because it's completely politically incorrect. -- You it's much harder to transcend class lines that it is to transcend age lines. -- having been said I do think from personal experience at fifteen years. Is the top. I think then you can be."

" I got you know we lost to see what does is make a great point thanks for the calls to 1278221969. K is on 969 good morning Kate NATO."

" Actually I think China finished dispute my because my -- and I suspect vehicle. And died and -- up. Appropriate guess I'd I'd I'd gotten it might have a funny effects. But he tried and -- the other might add add add. Looking and you do. I. You know won't let you."

" And have you had as heavy dose of things have changed some or is it about the same."

" I did turn 47 uploading the dollar -- I wouldn't change it back."

" Right now do you think that use it you would get the same percent 826 year old dating a forty year old today. Do you think it would get the same reception or has become more. Accept -- or more common thing."

" I think it's probably like that that are are more common nowadays I think that -- any idea at all. It is not. Pretty kind of get a bit but I joke -- is out. -- at what -- yeah he shouldn't look at jobs finally -- the hot. You know why she hasn't happened. -- aren't quite as much crucial it be high on bang on it by. I think that's to get my committee looking drained a conversation at that point in time."

" 25 years as the line is the brake line."

" Yeah I think that's the I don't mean he can find out -- you -- question you -- just absorbing -- and not about the experience had been yeah I would been diaper and that does. Take I don't I'm not pivot table without."

" At after thirteen years of marriage are still busting on the different."

" I didn't start."

" Well always does brutal absolutely brutal well hey thanks for the warning and adds up 6178221969. Pound that is -- Verizon Wireless customers more of your phone calls coming up. How much is too much okay a thirteen year age difference -- is good a fifteen year difference a twenty year difference I'd what are you. 85 a difference."

" I don't care they can't be too big I."

" I'm Michael Graham and haven't been anywhere I'd say."

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" Have Michael Grande 6178221969. Pound that is example Verizon Wireless customers. And I'm sorry. You cannot see a photo of."

" John Henry. And his girlfriend without reacting to it in part because. She's -- so people -- hot. Sell and wow all right there though thing is people all react to it based on in perceptions about -- that he is literally. Twice Linda does -- he's -- and so people go who would feel there's something creepy about -- but you know. There's another study that came that was released that the a year year and a half ago I was reading. That shows that it's actually good for the human species that may in the who have kids later in their life. Their children male boys and girls. -- also tend to live long enough knowledge of the guys live longer as a study shows but the kids tend to live longer -- that you spreading genes. From healthier guys no longer living guys to another generation and we've previously. The meat if you have the -- that 225. Year olds get married. The that there's no genetics electing we have the -- but if they 25 year old there's a fifty year old guy. He's still virile enough and has the attributes enough to attract a 25 year old that's a pretty just Brett on his face. Forget Roberts on the UN I don't have the problem of when we're fifty chasing a likely five year old he -- it's not going to be an issue for us. Tragically affected you noticed you I have had a problem currently. So I don't have any of those problems that but it's Michael Douglas you know it's that's that those kind of guys is that this ugly guys with the particularly. Affluent guys and usually athletes and it directly connected to ability intelligence. -- something. So good genes tend to get distributed by this system. Like you figure out his. What the wedding gift of Alex is aware and for women. I ID I handed the joke about what Strom -- church when he fort Davis is a teacher was shot 244. He married 22 year old -- going to be that's contestant was John -- turns 66 true story he married 22 year old miss south John Daly hasn't tested was -- to an 88. Nobody wanted to be the South Carolina will affect what happened is Nancy Moore married him when he was 66 -- 22 this is back in."

" The seventies she thought to be dead a few years she would. Step into the Senate seat. They had their fourth child together when he was 77. Years old. He was in his eighties in stuff was still and you're twenty she's 22. There's a 44 year difference he's 84. She's forty. And she still be called to the plate. To take a few swings the bat -- And it was just it was a disaster. For her but of course it was terrific for him what do women get -- these on 9692 morning --"

" Hi Michael my -- that that's like -- that. It's that I view of my best friend is by night it looked like it Victoria's Secret. She didn't have big diet actually export inside. And her husband now what year is 6160. Hill and she taught me when she married again once I settled at every single that it could just how it. No health issues let me tell you got to 61 Euro rights which allow the kneecap -- know -- and now -- doing with prostate cancer. So she's gonna pride in one's pick out Adam. He can't do a city. And it's been one year marriage and she is miserable. I hadn't had an important why I love -- has been utilized forty years older than me and LS color -- she's trying to get away from haven't. Obviously not have a very personal entire fortnight then every night despite good and I was having to deal with trying to dodge sport --"

" That's a problem -- people I mean that ready -- for you they -- for the call Heather is on 969 good morning Heather."

" Hey Mike thanks for taking my -- I eighty and married to someone who is seven years -- I. But for I -- married obviously. It men. My -- eleven years old and let me. And I did -- comfortable with older men. I I honestly think aggregate. From my -- Into. Like old men. That is that's right."

" Gipper after that makes that makes. It but you don't talk about the kind of numbers we're talking and I appreciate the call we're talking about. Celine Dion and -- who's -- was what her husband's 26 years old older than her."

" Rod Stewart's got a -- foods like 27. Whatever years younger. Uh oh what's his name's James Woods and actor I love. Refuses to date a woman over thirty he's sixty. And sell out OK for big jobs Levys obviously again you know this stuff happens but for normal guys what is what is it for the woman that's -- I cannot figure out. Jim is on 96 good morning Jim you're on the air. --"

" I -- well are my light one -- about forty -- you lucky me. I don't know about -- What action we got. Its own --"

" Sure sure you get the looks -- you yet. There's this sort of it's Merck's and that sort of thing but. The reality is that I worked my elect told me what she spotted a man and not a boy. There and bad. Man under the age of thirty. Did not act like human beings. That simply they were all about broad me. Before -- and woo woo woo. And you more and upload and forget it. And so it's worked out really -- You know I I am I am settled I -- well past the woo woo."

" Maybe. The there -- mod -- business lose ground are on occasion at all I."

" Well you know we legalize genocide in that somebody wants this bear -- in air and the few women their -- have been saying well now my friends forty. The retarded you know she."

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" Tim thanks for speak a little natural truth the 67221969. Janet is on 969 good morning Janet."

" I'm fantastic. -- 34 year old and."

" 34 years older. Not 34 years old 34 result."

" 34 years old. -- Well. I am I'm I'm not going to say it was horrible I eat a balanced net eighty. Too little riding point is there. I rant is an incredible X get. Yeah Gerald. Or -- they'll outlive me. --"

" How are you meet a guy 34 years older than you."

" My job. Yeah it was and public courses and LA Madeleine irritable extinguisher. Yeah -- Feet. Okay yeah I get I get you could ask."

" How did your family and friends respond when you told them your marriage."

" Are considering it was able they -- shot. Now my hands and six year old."

" Okay so with a working out better."

" Yeah that's cool yeah definitely cool by -- living why don't think I agree I do what they -- it -- You know at a very --"

" No you're right about that did you got but obviously didn't stay married there was a problem there but did you mean when you before you got -- did you think about the 34 year difference and what it meant in the future."

" You know I I actually get there. Well I was up."

" Well who love makes us do crazy things that's -- we love -- thanks for the Kuljanin 67221969. -- except for Verizon Wireless customers what is. Where is the -- in the call early first -- we give us a formula half your age plus seven plus seven. That's the formula that's how you she married then you've got Larry King. Whose wife is 26. Years younger than he is and he's which means she's only. 73. And then you've got. Us. We know we get what Imus and the -- as god like 2530 years right. Modestly dumped somewhere in their right when you say. In of course you have your who's not Mary but he has to high school kids -- out them all the time. Kevin Costner is 53 his wife is 34. So. Where is the line is there a point -- it's -- it doesn't matter to you now that you know there is a confirmed medical benefit for men. Does that make a difference is new study that men who marry women who were significantly younger than they are. Have a 20%. Better chance of living into old age 6178221969. Paulus on 969 good morning Paul you're on the air."

" They -- Michael. Yeah thirty girls live on 58. And we got a little fifteen month till some. I think you're focusing on the the long a bit -- range in other words. What about your broker but no authority over Obama more. To be much. Or just problem because. It."

" Always lose yourself by him so I call us back is only you're you're making in sixteen point about the focus being wrong look I I would say it's the ladies that we up. Women respond to this at a visceral gut level women respond. Purely on -- he liked the a look at that this is how we security on guys that are discussed looked at. What she do with honest to the sold out the money okay so it's all according. It -- what's the make it chuck is on 969 good morning chuck."

" Michael great -- it was six you are married to a woman at fifty years younger than me ideas -- important it was. Look at 183 years when you show up. Epic girl's parents are going I in Europe -- that you can be sure -- thinks you're shop but -- the -- tell you this. That's the first thing they like ice."

" It. Apple now. It's a really on the -- economy but."

" I am comfortable that the ESP benefits outweighed the discomfort but what about. Though so I just."

" There -- about -- your wife that what is the since his -- I'd get. What you're like man I'm I'm all about that I get a completely what do what do you think your wife gets in women in general get out of that kind of relationship."

" I depend on it I think it's. Depends on each particular situation I would disagree a gap ever married great person always busy and a little actually marry me."

" lot of talk to you I'm just as confused Johnson thanks to the call 6178221969. Dan is on 969 good morning then you're on the air."

" Just wanted to say my father actually is on his third marriage now. This time it is someone who is 34 years younger than -- And I just wanted to say that in regards of that help that it that the disease thirtieth claiming. My daddy is 75 now a strong and are still vacations around Europe while -- being. And when he was married my mother actually it was just parties on it and he was still exactly the same you know he's always been really help you really active really useful. I just think that but it doesn't take into account that. People that. Art like more useful they'll hand it may be married younger people --"

" Exactly -- other words you're already a group of men who are gonna survive longer regard to say you know that that's a big point that's a legitimate that's diligent apartment when things of the study. It's heavily studies point to is a long term effects for the rest of us in other words if -- case that these guys like your dad were strong as an -- are still out having children later on their net woman who might that a kid with a contemporary who was who did not have a great gene -- She is now self -- a really great -- pulls him saying. Her her -- if if your father has more kids those kids genetically going to have a a better chance of living longer themselves. And so -- that there are taking your point that's a very good point and extra strap relating it on beyond that -- the great call to god please dear dad."

" Thanks for downloading and listening to Michael -- Come back Coughlin Boston's talk evolution 969 WTKK. He is on line and awe and demand."